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The Do's and Don'ts of Wedding SpeechesWeddingNervesEnjoy your wedding speech by following these simple tips:I want the speech to be over with!Practice: even the most ad-lib or impromptu speeches have been well rehearsed, that is why they look so easy. In front of the mirror can work. It is best to keep the shuffling of cue cards and paper to a minimum. It is not necessary to commit the whole speech to memory but the more you can alleviate the reliance on paper the better. If you can get into the room before the ceremony kicks off, all the better. Try to practice with the microphone.Slow down and breathe: you maybe a bit nervous at the outset (that will quickly go) so slow down and let the crowd soak up the atmosphere there is a very good chance that most will have had more than a few drinks by the time it comes to your speechBody Language: always stand up straight and appear confident with a little smirk. Move your head around the room to show that you are speaking among friends.Nerves: even if you are nervous, don't ever start the speech with something like 'bear with me as I have never spoke in public before and am very nervous' this immediately sets off a weird vibe in the room Audience: note at the wedding, the crowd are really on your side. You are not delivering any bad news, bad company results or eulogizing at a funeral .Alcohol: dont be wasted before you make the speech. You really don't want to be remembered as the person who slurred out the non-sensical wedding speech.Structure: do structure your speech as this avoids rambing, you dont have to cover every topic but have some semblance of a beginning and an end. Find aGroom SpeechGroom Wedding Speech TipsThe role of the groom's wedding toast is to tell your bride that she looks beautifiul, how happy you are and to make sure that you thank everyone for coming.Please DoPlease Don'tTell her she looks fantastic!Tell your bride that she is amazing and how happy you are todayThank your parents and the bride's parents and all those who contributed to the dayThank everyone for coming and those who have travelled substantial distanceBriefly discuss how you met your now wife and make some fun of yourselfBe expressive and show some emotion -you do love your wife a little gush helps create the right atmosphereTalk about your career successes, this is not an interview, we all know you are great!Be intoxicated, it's tempting to down a few drinks for courage but don't go over board!Be too serious, it is a fun occassion, it's your day too, so enjoy it!Tell drawn out stories, unless you are a skilled orator avoid this , simplicity is bestTell stories that only a few in the audience will appreciate the audience will be quite diverse in age and background Find aBride SpeechBride Wedding Speech TipsThe bride nowadays usually makes a toast to express a heartfelt thanks to all those who helped make the day so special.This is my day and I will make a speech if I want to!Please DoPlease Don't•Thank the guests for coming and making this a special occasion•Thank your parents and your immediate family and indeed the groom's family•Thank your maid of honor, bridesmaids and all those who have made some contribution to the day especially those who have calmed your nerves•Tell everyone how great your husband is (can be tongue and cheek)•Inject some humour by outlining some new rules you will be introducing for your husband•Insult the groom's family or make jokes about how interfering your new mother in law was with the wedding planning•Be negative in any way something may have gone wrong on the day but in the general scheme of things does it really matter?•Worry, everyone is on your side! Find aGroomsman speechGroomsman Wedding Speech TipsThe audience will definitely be on your side so don't worry. They will expect a mixture of sincerity and humour from the best man speech.I am the best man!Please DoPlease Don'tIntroduce yourself as the best man, make a quick joke at the expense of yourself to break the iceBuild an emotional connection with the audience showing that you have been chosen as the best man because you care!Tell the bridesmaids and of course the bride that they are gorgeousTell the groom that you are proud to be the best man Tell the bride and groom that they are amazing as a unit and ask the audience stand up to toast the bride and groomMention all the grooms ex girlfriends (or ex-wife) it is distasteful and not relevantDiscuss the shenanigans at the bachelor party, strip clubs etc this will be of interest to a few but not the general audienceTell jokes that only a few people will identify with there is going to be a diverse audience in terms of age and background -never isolate members of the audienceBe too long so as to bore the guests be punchy to keep the audience interestedTurn it into a speech about you the groom may have helped you to surmount issues in the past but the audience does not need the details Find aMaid of Honor SpeechMaid of Honor Wedding Toast TipsThe Maid of Honor is distinguished from everyone else in the wedding party and rightfully takes her position in the front of the line. The Maid of Honor wedding toast is your opportunity to tell the audience what a great person your friend is and what the friendship means to you. Please Don'tPlease Do•Discuss ex boyfriends or ex husbands •Do not offend/embarrass or insult the bride, groom or in fact any of the guests•Use distasteful jokes•Be too long, keep the speech short at this stage, people have heard bout 4 to 5 speeches and want to continue with the celebrations•Introduce yourself to the audience and congratulate the happy couple•Tell the bride how proud you are to be the maid of honor and outline her wonderful characteristics•Tell the audience how long and how well you know the bride and what the friendship means to you•Express how happy you are that your friend has found a great husband and briefly explain what a great guy he is •End the speech on a positive note and wish the couple happiness for the rest of their livesThis is fun except for the speech! Find aFather of Bride speechFather of Bride Wedding Speech TipsThe Father of the bride wedding toast is usually first at the wedding. A heartfelt thanks to all coupled with some kind words for your daughter and new husband does the trick.It's not the cost but the speech I am worried aboutPlease DoPlease Don't•Be drunk as it will be hard to take your emotions seriously •Indicate that you are really not happy with your daughters choice•Talk about yourself - this is your daughters day !•Be too long, there are many speeches to get through, brevity is key •Talk about the expense of the wedding as people don't need to hear this•Introduce yourself and wish all the guests a great evening and thank them all for coming to join in on the celebrations•Tell your daughter how amazing she is, what she mean to you and why you are so happy and proud for her today•Welcome the groom into your family, say a few lines as to why you are happy to have him as your son in law•Mention a few joyful memories of your daughter growing up, memories that made both of you happy•Wish the bride and groom as a unit every success and happiness together. 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Weddingspeech4u.com A very popular site containing professionally written inspirational speeches and wedding toasts. Contains speeches for Bride, Groom, Bestman, Maid of honor, Father/Mother of the Bride. Site contains many testimonials and success stories as well as resources beyond the speech and for the wedding in general.Weddingtoasts.com Often called the "Bible of Wedding Toasts" due to its comprehensive guide how to research, write , practice and perfect an original and personalized toast. Contains samples and specific tips for Best Man, Maid of Honor and Father of the Bride. Techniques used by well known celebrities!

Weddingmcjokebook.com Over 80 clean, tasteful, funny wedding jokes and one-liners suitable for any wedding reception. Includes bride and groom jokes as well as parents and wedding party jokes. No comedy experience necessary. There is a special section on what not to say!Ultimatebestmanspeech.com Tested and proven bestman wedding speech samples so you can see how it comes together and create your best man speech fast. Step-by-step guide that promises to have your best man speech generated in 20 minutes. Contains "fill in the blanks" templates to tailor make your best man speech.

Ultimatebestmanspeeches.com Site focuses on how to portray confidence and charisma. Very much geared towards those who are feeling nervous and uncertain as to how the speech will be judged on the day. Contains a number of cheat sheets and tips to help you throughout the day. 30 pre-made example groomsman wedding speeches available.

Weddingspeechmatters.com Site mainly geared towards example bestman wedding speeches, although the guides are strong enough for anyone in the wedding party giving a speech. Provides speech templates for the groomsman and a free database of quotes. Free best man wedding speech available to get you started.